“A great marriage is not when perfect couple come together but it
is when imperfect couple learns to enjoy their difference”, Dave Meurer.
At
times, it is not that you have not met the right person that is why things are
not
moving
on the way you expect it in your marriage and relationship. It is simply that
you
might be doing the wrong things and putting up wrong attitudes to make it not
work
better for both of you.
There
is peace, happiness and joy in understanding in each other’s differences. When
we learn to harness each other’s differences, we will realize the strength in
our diversities and the later benefits that will accrue us.
The
first step to enjoying our indifference is to know and accept that we are
different people altogether from different backgrounds, different values,
ideas, beliefs and individual character and personality traits.
If you do
not fully accept your partner regardless of the indifference, you are rather
creating discomfort in your relationship and gradually reducing the bond of
affection between. It is better to call it quit if you know you do not have the
heart to tolerate your partner’s indifference and at the same time, complaining
all the time, putting up hurting attitudes and otherwise to cut off the
happiness in the relationship. If you are married and battling with this
indifference, then know that there is a way to happiness. And that is to first
accept the person as he/she is and love that person.
Learn to
enjoy the difference for out this comes happiness and testimony.
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