REVELATION FOR ELEVATION IN LIFE

BUILD QUALITY RELATIONSHIP

"If you do not take delight in building lifelong relationships, you will soon discover that you are left alone as time elapses.  Build lifelong relationships with people and stop the transactional relationships", Ernest K. Akorli.

Many people claim to have lots of friends but in times of need and trouble, they discover that they are left all alone. The secret is simple; do not be interested in making casual friendships all the time.

It is good to have a lot of casual friends but there should be some caliber of friends that should be part of the core of your life. These are the kind of friends you should share ideas with them.

If someone can really stand in the gap and risk their lives for you in your worst moments, then it depends on your worth and the level of your trust and friendship.

The pathetic thing about transactional friendship is that, people will only remember you whenever they need that particular service you can provide them. After satisfaction of the service provided, you are forgotten about and not remembered.

At times, how far you go in life depends on the quality of friends you have. Building a quality relationship and friendship is a matter of time, consistent efforts and deliberate actions to stay connected and united.  

You can bump into someone by chance and easily become friends but such friendship cannot thrive on chance. It will rot and decay. This accounts for the reason why at times, you have to really say a lot of things to remind the other person of how you both met, what really happened and how you became friends. That could be embarrassing.

Inasmuch as you seek to build lifelong relationships and friends, note that you cannot befriend everybody. Quality relationship is best managed when you have only a few people forming the core of your life. I am who I am today by the grace of God through the quality relationship I have with people.

Writer: Ernest K. Akorli

Email: ekakorli@gmail.com

THERE IS NO USELESS PERSON IN THIS WORLD

There is no useless person in this world. It is just that their time of usefulness has not yet come.

Do not cut down your tree because others are bearing fruits and yours isn't. Human beings are like trees; we blossom and do exploits according to time and season.

Know your season and wait for your harvest for God never creates anything useless.

Sometimes, parents declare their children useless and not worth investing into their education and future but God sees a seed of greatness in them, hence He gives them life each day to keep trying until perfection.

Some years ago, I planted some seeds but all did not germinate at once. Earlier germination is not a guarantee for fruitfulness & success. Some died along the line and others didn't even bear fruits at all but most of the late germinated seeds survived.

Never declare someone USELESS. It's just a matter of time and season for God will never waste His time to create useless things. No. God will not waste His time to create you if you will be a nuisance to the world.

There is no useless person in this world. It is just a matter of nursing your potentials and talents and at the right time, your usefulness will be seen. It is a terrible thing to look down on people and reject them because of their background, sickness and critical conditions and declare them useless. If they had a choice, they would not be born sick and in that worst conditions.

Do not let your privileges in life cause you to look down on others and declare them useless.

Writer: Ernest K. Akorli

Email: ekakorli@gmail.com

 

 

IN LIFE, YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE

 

In life, you only live once. If you are lucky and you have the opportunity to come back to life through resurrection before rapture, then that's just a luck for you. The truth of the matter is this, it is not all people that are lucky to come back to life. It is just by grace alone.

In life, you only live once so make everyday count. Life is too precious and expensive too expensive to be spent hating someone, wasting it on the wrong people, doing something that will not bring happiness for tomorrow and anything that erases your name from the good books of posterity.

Today could be my last motivational message to my readers.
Today could be the only chance for you to be somebody in life.
Today could be the only opportunity you have to repent and be saved.
Today could be the only chance to try that idea before you die.
Today could be the only chance to make that proposal and marry.
Today could be the day of your last breathe and die.

What are you waiting for? Nobody knows what tomorrow holds for us but once you are alive today, make everything count because tomorrow may never come for only you. Remember, in life, you only live once so make everyday count. I have only one life to live but with several opportunities. There is nothing like perfect condition for you to kick start your ideas for there could be inperfection in the supposed perfection so desired.

In life, you only live once so make yourself count in the society otherwise, the world will discount your value. People will remember you for just two things: the solutions you bring to brighten their lives or the troubles you brought to destroy their lives. My friends, it is not too late to start something no matter your age, qualification and experience. All that matters is the first efforts and a disciplined mind for continuity. Yes, you can.

It is time to stand up and be up to the task.
It is time to arise from mediocrity and become a great entity.
It is time to leave obscurity to become a celebrity.
It is time to do something before you die.
O yes, it is time to make your name before society mars it.

Remember, in life, you only live once.

Writer: Ernest K. Akorli
Email: ekakorli@gmail.com 

LITTLE EFFORTS COUNT

Little Efforts Count in your quest to reach the limelight. Even when God decided to rain free manna for the Israelites to eat, He did not drop them in their kitchen, fridges and bedrooms. God expected them to make at least some little efforts to walk out of the comfort of their bedrooms to pick the manna for themselves. Efforts are very important in your quest to achieve greatness and be successful. Laziness is like a cancer; it will eat up your potentials and finally destroy you in abject poverty.

Most of the times, little efforts are all it takes to land you on track to get things done. The whole world is littered with many opportunities but a lot of people only see problems and complain without knowing that opportunities are embedded in the problems. Little Efforts Count a lot.

Challenge yourself and get up from bed, get out there and pick up your manna of opportunities before it runs out of stock. Excuse is the younger brother of Laziness; they never make any fortune for anyone but rather mar it. If only you want to be an achiever then breakout from your comfort zone today and eschew both laziness and excuses. Your little efforts count.

Little efforts count a lot in our daily activities. Get up now and do the following:

     a.      Plan your day and be guided on what to do.

     b.      Avoid anything that steals your time.

     c.      Try to avoid lateness

     d.      Attempt that idea you have been thinking about for long

     e.     Try to do the same old things in different ways and the results will amaze you

     f.       Team up with people where your little efforts count but are not enough

O yes, little efforts count. Remember, your vision is like a big elephant. It takes just one person to kill it and at least 50 men to carry it home. It takes one person to conceive a good business idea but you may need a lot of people to realize it but start small.

Little efforts count. 

A LOVING WIFE FOR LIFE

A loving wife for life is a rare gift. It takes a woman with a vision and the ability to see beyond today to stick to you in your worst beginning without a clearer picture of the future. These kinds of women are precious and need to be praised. With love and understanding, they will be with you whether rain or shine. 

Lucky is the man that finds such a woman to marry but woe to the man who finds the woman whose love and attention are engineered and motivated by the materials of today. Oh yes, who can get a loving wife for life?

Do not despise your small beginning; there is a bigger seed of greatness being nursed in you. At the right time, you will sprout and blossom for all to see the hidden beauty of greatness in you.

To the men, when you think you are on top of the world; do not reject your old wife who toiled with you, prayed and hoped that all will be well with you tomorrow and then go in for a young lady. Do not despise your loving wife for life when things get better for she understands you better than the new one you want to marry.

To the women, when life gives you bitter pills and society shows your husband all the ills in the economy for life to be hard, do not leave him for no condition is permanent. There are better opportunities and smiles ahead.

I now understand why Mr. Barrack Obama loves his wife dearly. She is a loving wife for life.

PRIVATE PARTS OR PUBLIC PARTY

Young man, listen to wisdom. When I was in school as a kid, teachers taught us that there are some parts of the human body called PRIVATE PARTS. This means they are for private ownership only. If you are following any lady who exposes her private and vital parts in skimpy dresses then you are not safe. Why will you marry someone who has turned her PRIVATE PART into PUBLIC PARTY?

Incline your ears to the wisdom of the wise and safeguard your feeble heart and future from destruction. Public facilities deteriorate faster than private ones. Why? Most of them are meant to entertain people but not to be retained by one person. Public parties are public events meant for the feasting of the masses of people. 

If you know you are very jealous and cannot afford to share your woman with other people, then look out for someone who has a sense of ‘private ownership’ of her private parts.

And to the ladies also, any man who has turned his private parts into a testing public equipment for public use is not worth a man enough to live with as husband. He is a player and a 'public officer' whose aim is to render 'public service' to immoral women as well. 

Listen and hid to the ugly truth. It will save your soul and life. 

Think about it. 

Reflect on it. 

And share it with friends. 

Writer: Ernest K. Akorli

Email: ekakorli@gmail.com